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Showing posts with label 2018. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2018. Show all posts

Friday, February 1, 2019

Fave books of 2018!


I made a goal in 2018 to read 20 books. I had gotten off track in reading because I got wrapped up in Eden’s night routine and then fell asleep with her. We found our rhythm with me reading all books on the kindle when we got in bed. We snuggled and I read (she does best when somewhat ignored). I wound up reading 30 books and thought I would share my favorites since I always get asked for recommendations.

I’ve tried to challenge myself to read some books from authors I’m not sure I jive with so I get new perspectives. I also try to balance non-fiction and fiction, including memoirs of those that who lives are caught in the middle of political debates. Under all the back and forth of politics, no issue is “that simple” and there are LIVES affected. Hearing their stories is important to me.

Being in the book club also helps my repertoire because I’m challenged to read books I never would have known about or would never choose for myself.

Here are some of my favorites and some comments if I feel the urge:

  • Becoming by Michelle Obama

I’ll admit it. I was not an Obama fan from the beginning. I have come to love this family. I miss the gentle nature and careful words by President Obama. I love Michelle Obama’s spunk. Whether or not you liked her husband or the Democrats, she is a great role model.

  • Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

Just a great book – the beginning is a little rough because of the circumstances of the main character but it gets easier. What a great ending!

  • Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis

I liked it. I keep seeing the “Christian-y” articles bashing her because she “didn’t talk Jesus enough.” Come on. I can’t get on board with that. When I first saw the book, I assumed it was another Hollywood woman who got by with her connections and yada yada yada. I loved her transparency in the book. She has some street creds in life. She has been through some really hard things. I respect her cheerleading for women instead of the opposite. I love that her husband is on board and is supporting her dreams. It gave me enough “hoorah!” to change a few things for myself so if that saved me a mental health copay, then fantastic.

  • A Hope More Powerful Than the Sea: One Refugee’s Incredible Story of Love, Loss and Survival by Melissa Fleming

I still have reading flashbacks to this book. Some of the details will haunt me for the rest of my life. I have a soft spot for refugees after learning about them, diving into the process to see what it’s really like and spending time with refugees or the American citizens born of refugees in this country. If we were put in their situations going in the other direction, I just don’t know how many of us would make it. This book illustrates one woman’s story of coming on a boat, saving two children, and rebuilding her life elsewhere. She describes her desire to stay in her country but the need to leave. The details from the journey are graphic and sobering. I think everyone should read a book like this.

  • Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate

One of the best books I’ve ever read in my life. Enough said.

  • Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover

Another wow! I love a memoir. I think we can all glean something from someone else’s story. What a resilient person. I highly recommend this book.

  • The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah

I thought of the characters of this book for a long time after the book ended. It was easy to read. A good book for a long flight.

  • The Sun Does Shine: How I Found Life and Freedom on Death Row by Anthony Ray Hinton

For those who support the death penalty or think there are no issues with our judicial system, this is a must read. This stirred up quite the discussions in book club as we were scattered across the board in opinions about the death penalty. This man was able to keep his goodness and come out on the other side positive. That wouldn’t be me.

  • The Good Soldiers by David Finkel

This book tells the stories of the Rangers in Iraq and follows one team in particular. It’s not for the faint of heart.  The book details injuries and deaths from IEDs and mentions some of the aftercare for the soldiers sent home.

  • The Line Becomes a River by Francisco Cantu

This book is written by a border patrol agent. I wanted to read the perspective after so much controversy with the current situations at the border. I wanted to hear from someone who “sees” it after hearing of abuse of children by border patrol agents. It's not the best written book, that's for sure.

  • Red Notice by Bill Browder

Not my usual cup of tea but I stuck with it and am glad I did. It got such good ratings so I usually trust a certain number of stars across thousands of people.
 
Parts were hard to digest in regard to crimes against humanity.

  • Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates

This has been on my “to read” list for so long. What a beautiful letter to his son about being Black in the United States.

  • I Was Told to Come Alone by Souad Mekhennet

I saw this author interviewed on TV and became curious. Woah. She uncovers the identity of the ISIS executioner “Jihadi John” and meets with inner circles of Al Qaeda, Taliban, ISIS. She never knows where she is going and she has to come alone with no phone, recorder, ID, etc. She passes on first-hand information including why groups do not like the United States.

  • The Radium Girls by Kate Moore

Why do we never hear about these things at school? I feel like I missed so much history between this and some other books that have been published recently, especially about women and their contributions.

The other books I read that didn’t make it into the “fave” category are here. Many of them I liked or enjoyed but when it was over, it was over. 

  • Norwegian by Night by Derek B. Miller
  • Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life by Jen Hatmaker
  • We’re Going to Need More Wine by Gabrielle Union
  • Then She Was Gone by Lisa Jewell (easy, entertaining, suspenseful read)
  • The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
  • Bring Me Back by B.A. Paris (suspenseful, a “pool read”)
  • The Storyteller’s Secret by Sejal Badani
  • If You Only Knew by Jamie Ivey
  • The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin
  • Hallelujah Anyway by Anne Lamott
  • A Homemade Life: Stories and Recipes from My Kitchen Table by Molly Wizenberg
  • The Queen of  Hearts by Kimmery Martin
  • Pachinko by Min Jin Lee
  • Exit West by Mohsin Hamid
  • Goodbye Things: The New Japanese Minimalism by Fumio Sasaki
  • The More of Less by Joshua Becker

I hope you find something here to read or something that inspires you. I also encourage you to choose a title that may make you uncomfortable or challenge your perspective.
I also have book recommendation on this page as well (needs to be updated with the above books).

Happy reading!

Danielle

 

 

Thursday, December 20, 2018

2018 Recap

Here we are again at the end of the year and I ask yet again, Where did the time go?!?!


Eden brought a lot of joy but all in all it was a pretty mundane year for the most part for the rest of us and our happenings. No changes in the work front. Luba still works at the International Institute and I’m still managing the ABA department at Easterseals.


I’m still part of a book club and these women keep me challenged! They are really an oasis here for me. I continue to part of a cooking club. There are 6 of us and we meet monthly in one person’s home. That host sets the theme and buys all the ingredients. The rest of us show up, cook and then we eat together. I was part of a cooking club in CA and loved it so much. This keeps me fresh in the kitchen and also reminds me of my dearly missed CA girlfriends.


Eden is growing like a weed and thriving at her daycare center. She is now 21 months old. She is talking SO much. She uses 2 word phrases frequently and is throwing in some 3-word phrases every now and then. She knows the names of everyone at school and in her family, names some numbers (her faves are 4 and 7), and names shapes. We can't even keep up with her vocabulary. She definitely makes this Speech Pathologist mama proud! Right now, she is really loving the 1973 classic Charlotte’s Web. It takes me back to Lucedale Elementary - library - Ms. Tolbert- rain days with no PE.


I’m going to post some highlights through the months so you can see what we have been up to and how Eden has grown! We are pretty boring so not much changes with Luba and me.


January








February




We had a "mommy and me" Valentine's Day date at the zoo.


March

Eden turned 1! You can read more about her birthday by clicking on this link.
 











April

Eden started walking!









May

We visited Grant's Farm. Eden loved the carousel and feeding the goats. We made a trip to Mississippi for Memorial Day at the end of the month. On the way back, we visited the Civil Rights Museum in Memphis. It was humbling to walk through this as a family knowing that long ago our family would have been illegal.  












June







July

We visited Purina Farms and Eden loved watching the dog show! We spent the 4th of July in the neighborhood!












August

We visited Butterfly House and the Zoo. She also discovered the joy in having pink toenails.


 
 
 
 
 
 



September


We went apple picking at Eckert's. Eden LOVED sampling apples although it was the hottest day of the year, ever, in any part of the world. We went early in the morning but melted quickly. We had more park trips and zoo trip including cousin Niko. We also took another trip to Mississippi for Labor Day. Eden went to her first Cardinals game on Easterseals night. She had a blast and sat through the whole game!


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



October

This month, Eden had Child Dedication at the church we have been attending, The Crossing. She also owned trick-or-treating. I thought she would be shy but she went right up to every door step and held her hand out or bag open for candy. I'm still not sure what to think of that boldness at her young age yet.


 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Video of trick or treating

November

Luba’s parents visited! This was their first time in the USA and meeting Eden. They had only seen pictures and videos so this was a special time for the family. They also got to experience Thanksgiving. Eden relished having her grandparents living with her for 3 weeks. My mom also came up to meet the Mntangas and spend Thanksgiving. We went to the Zoo and hung out at Forest Park. The Mntangas got to experience a snow! We decorated the Christmas tree as a family.


 
 
 
 
 

 We also got to celebrate Mom's birthday when she was here

 Mrs. Clause was here to help out

 
 
 
 Brady was home from college
Eden scored a great Denver hoodie!

 South Africa, Vietnam, & Mississippi representing!

 the turkey hit early
(although it looks like wine hit)


December


So far, we have had breakfast with Santa at daycare. As you can see, she was not impressed. She asks for "more Santa" each time she goes to daycare. I'm not sure what she would do if her wish were fulfilled.


 
 we celebrated "Lulu's" birthday

We got a visit from Laura & family!

 Santa came early and brought a kitchen set!

  
 
 bossing around boys already
and carrying a purse

 
 


Eden LOVES Mexican food. She lived her best life on Cherokee Street, a street in St. Louis that has authentic markets and restaurants. This is my favorite video and sums up her personality:




That wraps up our year! We hope you have a wonderful holiday season!


Love,
Danielle, Luba & Eden